What It Might Mean if it Feels Like your Partner Pulled a 'Bait and Switch'?

Hello Beautiful One,

I want to share a story that happened to me … and I’m wondering if anything like this has ever happened to you.

After dating for just a few months, I started feeling like my partner was pulling away. It was really scary. Had I done something wrong? What was the matter? Why did he seem to be changing? I felt confused, upset, and worried.

For the previous few months, he’d coddled me. We talked about everything and had so much fun. I felt a connection with him that I'd never felt before. It felt great.

So when it seemed he was changing, I was really worried that this relationship would be like previous ones. As if directing my thoughts to him, it went something like this in my mind, "Oh no! I’m not going to go through this again! It’s like false advertising, bait’n switch! You can’t act really nice to me, and then when you think you ‘got me’ you stop doing all the things that brought me close to you in the first place.”

I felt angry. It didn't feel fair. If we were together and I’d feel something like this, I would leave in frustration, secretly hoping he would chase me. Somehow that felt like a way of knowing whether he cared for me or not. It was not a good way to live.


Have you felt this in your past or present relationships? Do you wonder what happened to all those great conversations, the cuddling, and the connecting?

The good news we're still together. I found out why I felt this way and was able to stop my emotional distress and realized he wasn't doing what I thought he was.


So the good news is you can get back that honeymoon feel that will last in your relationship, no matter how long you've been together. In fact, when you have the right knowledge and tools, your relationships can get so much better than they were at the beginning!

Want to know how?

Watch the short video included with this post on: How to Feel More Secure in Your Relationships

Holly and I are talking about the Masterclass we're having on Sunday, June 28th at 4pm CDT. It's only $7 for 90 minutes of relationship changing information.


Go here to register today.

I wish I'd known this information decades ago. It would've saved me so much heartache, emotional upset, and trauma.


You'll learn so much from this class I'm doing with Holly Jaleski, about why we have these emotional upsetting thoughts, why we react to what our partner is doing the way we do, and some tools on how to realize what is happening before we lash out, or leave, or try to make them jealous, or just shut down and cry.


We're charging $7 for this Masterclass just so you have some skin in the game. The value is way beyond the dollar amount. What we’ll be sharing is such important information that should be taught in schools, in our homes, and in business.


We'd love to have you join us Sunday June 28th!

Register here.

Find our how to make the emotional pain dissolve and how to find more calm in your life.


Sending you huge hugs and big love,


Debbie Pearson



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