Discover Your Inner World
Hello Beautiful People,
Discover Your Inner World.
I'm spent all my life wondering "what is w-r-o-n-g with me"! I never felt like I fit in. I never felt comfortable in lots of conversations where others looked like they were having a wonderful time. I didn't want to go out "again". I didn't really enjoy going to the ball game. How could I be so different from so many other people, especially my family. Why did they all seem to get along so well yet I felt like an outcast?
I've cried. I've screamed. I've been depressed. I've been sad. I've been upset. I've felt left out. I've looked in the mirror and wondered "why? What is wrong with me? How can I be so different?" And I couldn't help myself, I just started to try and find out. I looked everywhere I could research. I talked to lots of people who gave me bits of information and direction. I've read books, watched hours of self-help TV, videos, movies, youtube, you name it..... until.....
I learned about something called Emotional Intelligence. Emotional Intelligence? Yep, that's right. It's where you find out about who you are, but more like a deep dive. Most of us think we know, and we pretty much do, but we're missing some key components. Like, do you know what you core values are? You know you have them, and you're angry if someone steps on them. But can you name them? What about your Operating Beliefs? Your nurturance style? Your temperment style? Are you someone with a High D personality, or do you have traits of both "I" and "S", or are you the cautious type? And, there's more.
We look outside of ourselves so much and learn all about the outer world.... but what about our inner world. The world that tells us who we really are. Who is it that we came on this earth to be. What part of the puzzle are we not going to get to be because we've changed our shape to try and fit in elsewhere? I've discovered who I am and I will tell you that I've chosen to not change my shape to fit into other peoples puzzles. I will keep my own shape and when I don't fit, I realize that I just don't belong there.
My friends, my wish for you is that you take time to discover your inner world, and discover the "who" it is that you really are. Here's two free websites to get you started: www.123Test.com and www.16personalities.com. Take the tests, read the results. Get a new perspective on you. I've had so much fun with these.
Huge hugs and big love,